Freelancer tips: Tackling loneliness as a freelancer
Freelancing offers incredible flexibility and independence, but the loneliness of working alone can come as a shocking drawback for many. We at Tentoo, dedicated to supporting freelancers with tailored payroll solutions and guidance, understand the challenges freelancers face. That’s why we’ve teamed up with Jenny Bjorklof, community leader of Freelancers in Belgium, to share practical tips for overcoming loneliness and building meaningful connections.
Q: Jenny, loneliness is often seen as a downside of freelancing. What are your thoughts?
Jenny: Interestingly, in a recent poll I ran, many freelancers shared that loneliness isn’t necessarily a problem. For some, the quiet is welcome, especially after transitioning from busy office environments. Most freelancers selected: “What loneliness? I finally have the peace to focus on my work!”
That said, loneliness can be a big adjustment, especially for those switching from employment. Freelancing can feel isolating, particularly when you miss out on daily chats with coworkers or team collaboration.
Q: What are your top tips for freelancers struggling with loneliness?
Jenny: Here are some strategies that have worked for me and others in our community:
- Join a coworking space.
If you miss being around people in an office, coworking spaces can be a great solution. Use the opportunity of doing a trial day and compare options to find the right fit:- Who works there? Surrounding yourself with like-minded professionals can lead to collaborations, inspiration, or even new clients.
- What’s the cost? What’s included? Coffee, meeting rooms, printers, fixed desks, etc.?
- Do they have separate areas for calls? Attend networking events.
Events are fantastic for meeting like-minded professionals, potential clients, and even friends. Plus, they offer structured social time, which can be easier for introverts.
- Be active on social media.
Platforms like LinkedIn or Facebook groups are great for finding your tribe, sharing experiences, and feeling connected. - Join the Freelancers in Belgium community.
Our community is designed to connect freelancers, share resources, and foster collaboration. Whether online in our Facebook group or at one of our events in person, you’ll find support here. - Schedule virtual coffees or lunches.
Reach out to fellow freelancers for a quick Zoom coffee or an in-person lunch. These informal catch-ups are a great way to share ideas, vent, or just socialize. - Volunteer.
Helping out in your local community or with a professional organization can be both fulfilling and a way to connect with others.
Q: Are there other strategies freelancers can try?
Jenny: Absolutely. Here are a few additional ideas:
- Join hobby groups or sports teams. These give you a social outlet outside of work.
- Try accountability partners or mastermind groups. These are small groups of freelancers or entrepreneurs who meet regularly to support each other’s goals.
- Take breaks at local cafes. It is an easy way to be around people while working.
Host your own events. Even a small meetup of freelancers in your area can be a great way to build connections. This is also nice to do in a team.
Q: Finally, what’s your biggest piece of advice for freelancers feeling lonely?
Jenny: Remember, you’re not alone. Freelancing becomes easier and more enjoyable when you do it together. The nicest surprise when I became self-employed was discovering how genuinely nice and supportive people are. Freelancers often go out of their way to help each other. Whether it’s sharing advice, collaborating, or simply cheering each other on.
Looking to connect with other freelancers and find your community? Visit Freelancers in Belgium and join a network of supportive, like-minded professionals!